5。 You‘re a better communicator。
　　你能更好地与人沟通。

　　In order to really establish limits， you have to state what you can or cannot tolerate， Buck said。 That means being clear and concise。 Expressing your own needs will also allow you to be more transparent。 All of these characteristics are elements of good communication。
　　巴克说，为了真正设立限度，你必须要明确说明你能忍受什么或者不能忍受什么，这也就意味着你必须说得清楚简洁。表达自己的需要还会让你成为一个更透明的人。所有这些特征都是构建良好沟通的元素。

　　6。 You start trusting people more。
　　你开始更加信任他人。

　　Expressing your limitations to others means you‘re trusting them to handle those emotions you’re conveying， Buck said。 And more trust means better relationships。
　　巴克说，能向别人表达出你的限度，说明你信任他们，相信他们能够处理好你传达的情绪。而更多信任也就意味着更好的关系。

　　7。 You‘re less angry。
　　你会少些愤怒。

　　When you don‘t have set boundaries， it means that gives other people the power over your own life — and that can lead to anger。
　　你不为自己设限，也就给了别人支配你生活的权力——而这样就会导致愤怒情绪。

　　8。 You learn how to say “no。”
　　你会学会如何说“不”。

　　“No” may be a small word but it‘s certainly powerful。 The most basic way of establishing a boundary is declining anything you don’t have the capacity to handle。
　　“不”可能是个很小的字眼，但无疑具有巨大的能量。设限的最基本方式就是拒绝那些你无力处理的事情。

　　9。 You end up doing things you actually want to do。
　　你终于可以做你真正想做的事。

　　Limits free you up for more opportunity to do the work and activities that you actually desire to do。
　　设限会将你解放，让你有更多的机会去参与你真正渴望的工作和活动。

　　10。 You become a more understanding person。
　　你会成为一个更贴心的人。

　　When you‘re compassionate toward yourself about what you can tolerate， you’re better able to express that to other people who have their own boundaries they want to follow。
　　当你能对自己有同情心、知晓自己能承受的限度，你也就能更好地表达对别人的同情心并理解他人遵循的限度。
(作者：Lindsay Holmes 来源：赫芬顿邮报)