德康 发表于 2025-10-3 07:09

人要认清现实，把利益放在第一位。

<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=20240712" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=20240712"><!--    付费贴-->    <div class="preview_article ">            <!---->    <p>《繁花》里面这句话很有感触：&ldquo;不要对身边的任何一个人下定义，因为利益和人心是变化无常的。你是弱者身边全是坏人，你变强者身边全是好人。&rdquo;</p><p>不要拿以前的事来衡量现在的人，回头看看谁都不是曾经的样子。利益到位，陌生人就是朋友；利益消失，朋友就是陌生人。人走茶凉，是自然的规律；人没走茶就凉，是世态炎凉。</p><p>无论和谁交往，不要只讲人情，不讲利益。没有分寸和界限，再好的关系都会被背叛，因为人性的善恶都是受利益影响的！永远不要去顾及所有人的关系，因为关系都是假象，利益才是真相。</p><p>人心只有一拳，别把它想得太大。盛下了是非，就盛不下正事。很多人每天忙忙碌碌，一事无成，那就是对细枝末节的琐碎关注得太多。米可果腹，沙可盖屋，但二者掺到一起，价值全无。做人纯粹点，做事才能痛快点。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/forum/20251003070824front2_0_1694422_FgRnvScpmMn4tAY1ZuJcAbTRihDI.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOW-t-W6tw==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/45/dy/16/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/-34/dy/10" alt="" width="690" height="1035" data-qf-origin="forum/20251003070824front2_0_1694422_FgRnvScpmMn4tAY1ZuJcAbTRihDI.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOW-t-W6tw==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/45/dy/16/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/-34/dy/10" /></p><p class="empty_paragraph">&nbsp;</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/forum/20251003070824front2_0_1694422_Fmox5-93wkMFMkTWvO3qy_TVJ5tJ.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOW-t-W6tw==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/45/dy/16/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/-34/dy/10" alt="" width="864" height="1152" data-qf-origin="forum/20251003070824front2_0_1694422_Fmox5-93wkMFMkTWvO3qy_TVJ5tJ.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOW-t-W6tw==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/45/dy/16/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/-34/dy/10" /></p><p class="empty_paragraph">&nbsp;</p><p class="empty_paragraph">&nbsp;</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/forum/20251003070907front2_0_1694422_FhDN1vplJf-gQRnlhh5UXe9gTb-t.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOW-t-W6tw==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/45/dy/16/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/-34/dy/10" alt="" width="690" height="887" data-qf-origin="forum/20251003070907front2_0_1694422_FhDN1vplJf-gQRnlhh5UXe9gTb-t.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOW-t-W6tw==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/45/dy/16/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/-34/dy/10" /></p><p>&nbsp;</p>    <!----></div>            

狼影萧萧 发表于 2025-10-3 07:21

大实话

德康 发表于 2025-10-3 07:55

狼影萧萧 发表于 2025-10-3 07:21
大实话

感谢打赏！也祝您早日脱单，找到自己心仪的另一半。

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