二实小﹒全环境立德树人︱让友谊的“小船”扬帆起航
<style>.rich_media_content{padding: calc(20px + env(safe-area-inset-top)) calc(16px + env(safe-area-inset-right)) 12px calc(16px + env(safe-area-inset-left));}.rich_media_content * {max-width: 100%!important;box-sizing: border-box!important;-webkit-box-sizing: border-box!important;word-wrap: break-word!important;}.rich_media_content img {height: auto!important;}.rich_media_content p {clear: both;min-height: 1em;}</style><p><section class="rich_media_content" id="js_content"><section data-role="outer" label="edit by 135editor"><section data-role="outer" label="edit by 135editor" data-tplid="134623"><section style="margin-right: 10px;margin-left: 10px;letter-spacing: 1.5px;line-height: 1.75;" data-role="outer"><section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="128568" draggable="true"><section style="margin: 10px auto;display: flex;transform-style: preserve-3d;align-items: center;"><section style="width: 100%;justify-content: center;transform: translateZ(10px);" data-width="100%"><section><section style="font-size: 15px;display: flex;justify-content: center;align-items: center;"><p style="color: #f6b933;"><strong> </strong></p><p style="font-size: 27px;color: #f6b933;"><br/></p><section style="width: 70px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-imgfileid="100191756" data-ratio="1" src="http://www.ytbbs.com/plugin.php?id=zxl_editor:wx_func&ac=wximg&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/O6kGTiaOgASibPBoNmCicRCJtUaA83ofyXsydfZFKenQeMAUj5hDD0vCoHbxp6l7sHCTeeZCJOIvSGXia396ckOPzg/640?wx_fmt=gif" data-w="120" data-width="100%" style="width: 100%;display: block;vertical-align: inherit;transform: rotate(25deg);"/></section></section><section style="color: #2468b3;text-align: center;margin-top: -32px;"><span style="font-size: 28px;"><strong>让友谊的“<strong style="color: rgb(36, 104, 179);font-size: 28px;letter-spacing: 1.5px;text-align: center;white-space: normal;">小船</strong>”扬帆起航</strong></span></section><section style="font-size: 14px;display: flex;align-items: center;justify-content: center;"><section style="width: 10%;border-top: 3px solid rgb(246, 185, 51);height: 3px;overflow: hidden;max-width: 10% !important;" data-width="10%"><br/></section><section style="flex-shrink: 0;"><section style="font-size: 20px;color: #f6b933;text-align: center;"><strong>同学之间如何正确处理矛盾</strong></section></section></section></section></section><section style="font-size: 14px;width: 100%;margin-left: -100.1%;" data-width="100%"><section style="width: 10em;height: 10em;border-radius: 100%;background-color: rgb(237, 251, 255);margin-right: auto;margin-left: auto;"><br/></section></section></section></section></section><section style="font-size: 15px;"><p style="text-align:center;"><br/></p></section><section style="text-indent: 2.21428em;line-height: 1.6em;font-size: 14px;margin-right: 10px;margin-left: 10px;"><section style="text-indent: 2.21428em;line-height: 1.6em;margin-right: 10px;margin-left: 10px;" data-autoskip="1"><p style="text-align:justify;line-height: 1.6em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;line-height: 1.6em;font-family:宋体, SimSun;">孩子们在交往的过程中，经常会因为一些小事产生矛盾， 友谊的“<span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1.5px;text-indent: 28px;">小船</span>”说翻就翻。原因常常是一些学习生活中很小很小的事，有时就是一句话、一个眼神、一个小磕碰、一次小接触，或一个道听途说，都会让矛盾发生。面对同学间的矛盾时，应该如何正确处理呢？接下来，让我们一起学习与同学“交往的艺术”，懂得用“宽容”来维护自己的友谊，巧妙避免矛盾冲突，提高自己的性格修养，从容化解矛盾，珍惜同学情谊。</span></p></section></section><section style="font-size: 14px;"><p><br/></p></section><section data-role="title" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="123217" style="font-size: 14px;"><section style="margin: 10px auto;display: flex;justify-content: center;"><section><section style="width: 40px;margin-bottom: -15px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-imgfileid="100191759" data-ratio="1" src="http://www.ytbbs.com/plugin.php?id=zxl_editor:wx_func&ac=wximg&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/O6kGTiaOgASibPBoNmCicRCJtUaA83ofyXsydfZFKenQeMAUj5hDD0vCoHbxp6l7sHCTeeZCJOIvSGXia396ckOPzg/640?wx_fmt=gif" data-w="120" data-width="100%" style="width: 100%;display: block;vertical-align: inherit;transform: rotate(25deg);"/></section><section style="background-color: rgb(129, 209, 246);border-radius: 25px;padding: 4px;margin-top: -25px;margin-left: 20px;"><section style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;padding: 3px 15px;border-width: 1px;border-style: dashed;border-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);border-radius: 25px;"><strong>01 案例故事：聪聪受伤了</strong></section></section></section></section></section><section style="font-size: 14px;"><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="123192" style="display: flex;justify-content: center;"><section style="margin: 10px auto;transform-style: preserve-3d;"><section style="display: flex;justify-content: flex-start;margin-bottom: -20px;transform: translateZ(10px);-webkit-transform: translateZ(10px);-moz-transform: translateZ(10px);-o-transform: translateZ(10px);"><section style="width: 65px;"><img data-width="100%" src="http://www.ytbbs.com/plugin.php?id=zxl_editor:wx_func&ac=wximg&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/4iafvQH4UsEmZflLSMT3X0mh5P9eLmGBRnBu4x8Gia711VHDMAWicBUic9F1xf5gJYIYHS7iaA1T5rDxxyQsJlC5MTA/640?wx_fmt=png" style="width: 100%;display: block;vertical-align: inherit;" data-imgfileid="100191757" data-ratio="0.41379310344827586" data-w="116"/></section></section><section style="padding-right: 5px;padding-left: 5px;transform-style: preserve-3d;"><section style="display: flex;transform: translateZ(5px);-webkit-transform: translateZ(5px);-moz-transform: translateZ(5px);-o-transform: translateZ(5px);"><section style="display: flex;align-items: flex-end;"><section style="width: 6px;border-left: 1px dashed rgb(129, 209, 246);height: 40%;border-bottom: 1px dashed rgb(129, 209, 246);overflow: hidden;"><br/></section></section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img js_insertlocalimg" data-imgfileid="100191755" data-ratio="0.7534818941504178" data-s="300,640" src="http://www.ytbbs.com/plugin.php?id=zxl_editor:wx_func&ac=wximg&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/dhhIQMInfy9UB45r0wKjgLLvDpG4JP8SS9aZ2MqA4xiaINFiaCtyrB6FibvPsviauq6ITzgibOBsbdBLfJptDxTmm9A/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="718" style="vertical-align: inherit;width: 100%;"/></p><section style="width: 100%;border-bottom: 1px dashed rgb(129, 209, 246);height: 6px;overflow: hidden;" data-width="100%"><br/></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="text-align:justify;text-indent: 2.21428em;line-height: 1.6em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;line-height: 1.6em;font-family:宋体, SimSun;">周二数学课上，同学们都在专心致志地做作业，聪聪却无心作业，他百无聊赖，就故意去抢后座康康的笔，脸上还露出得逞的笑容。康康急着要夺回自己的笔，在争抢过程中，笔尖不小心戳到了聪聪的眼睛下面。聪聪捂着眼睛，气急败坏地大喊：“他戳我眼睛……”，一边哇哇大哭，一边把康康的文具盒和书本统统扔到了地上，康康慌张地连声道歉。班主任老师急忙赶来处理，赶紧带聪聪去医务室，并不断安抚聪聪和康康的情绪，还好医生说聪聪没什么大碍。</span></p><p style="text-align:justify;text-indent: 2.21428em;line-height: 1.6em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;line-height: 1.6em;font-family:宋体, SimSun;">老师等他们心情平复下来后问清楚了事情的原委。在老师的一番耐心劝导和调解下，两个小伙伴互相道歉，并重归于好。可回到家的聪聪，被妈妈发现了脸上的印记，被询问原因时，却并没有说清自己干扰康康学习的细节。妈妈一听，认为聪聪在学校受到了同学的欺负，十分生气。第二天，她找到班主任，怒气冲冲要向学校和康康家长讨个说法。</span></p><p style="text-align:justify;text-indent: 2.21428em;line-height: 1.6em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;line-height: 1.6em;font-family:宋体, SimSun;">这个小故事不由引起我们的反思：面对孩子之间产生的小矛盾、小摩擦，家长应该着眼于帮助孩子提升他们的情绪智能和解决问题的能力，而不是简单地告诉他们如何应对。</span></p></section><section data-role="title" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="123217" style="font-size: 14px;"><section style="margin: 10px auto;display: flex;justify-content: center;"><section><section style="width: 40px;margin-bottom: -15px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-imgfileid="100191758" src="http://www.ytbbs.com/plugin.php?id=zxl_editor:wx_func&ac=wximg&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/O6kGTiaOgASibPBoNmCicRCJtUaA83ofyXsydfZFKenQeMAUj5hDD0vCoHbxp6l7sHCTeeZCJOIvSGXia396ckOPzg/640?wx_fmt=gif" data-width="100%" style="width: 100%;display: block;vertical-align: inherit;transform: rotate(25deg);" data-ratio="1" data-w="120"/></section><section style="background-color: rgb(129, 209, 246);border-radius: 25px;padding: 4px;margin-top: -25px;margin-left: 20px;"><section style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;padding: 3px 15px;border-width: 1px;border-style: dashed;border-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);border-radius: 25px;"><strong>02 引导孩子掌握解决问题的办法</strong></section></section></section></section></section><section style="font-size: 15px;"><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="123192" style="display: flex;justify-content: center;"><section style="margin: 10px auto;transform-style: preserve-3d;"><section style="display: flex;justify-content: flex-start;margin-bottom: -20px;transform: translateZ(10px);-webkit-transform: translateZ(10px);-moz-transform: translateZ(10px);-o-transform: translateZ(10px);"><section style="width: 65px;"><img data-width="100%" src="http://www.ytbbs.com/plugin.php?id=zxl_editor:wx_func&ac=wximg&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/4iafvQH4UsEmZflLSMT3X0mh5P9eLmGBRnBu4x8Gia711VHDMAWicBUic9F1xf5gJYIYHS7iaA1T5rDxxyQsJlC5MTA/640?wx_fmt=png" style="width: 100%;display: block;vertical-align: inherit;" data-imgfileid="100191760" data-ratio="0.41379310344827586" data-w="116"/></section></section><section style="padding-right: 5px;padding-left: 5px;transform-style: preserve-3d;"><section style="display: flex;transform: translateZ(5px);-webkit-transform: translateZ(5px);-moz-transform: translateZ(5px);-o-transform: translateZ(5px);"><section style="display: flex;align-items: flex-end;"><section style="width: 6px;border-left: 1px dashed rgb(129, 209, 246);height: 40%;border-bottom: 1px dashed rgb(129, 209, 246);overflow: hidden;"><br/></section></section><section><section style="width: 100%;" data-width="100%"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-croporisrc="http://www.ytbbs.com/plugin.php?id=zxl_editor:wx_func&ac=wximg&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/dhhIQMInfy9UB45r0wKjgLLvDpG4JP8Ssmh8JfQVQlZXH7B0pXyvcOODLtbaR4La1f1Kua9tDBhmWPqPiaqzicjQ/0?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="1080" data-cropy1="75.60000000000001" data-cropy2="591.84" data-imgfileid="100191762" data-ratio="0.4777777777777778" src="http://www.ytbbs.com/plugin.php?id=zxl_editor:wx_func&ac=wximg&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/dhhIQMInfy9UB45r0wKjgLLvDpG4JP8SKvJK1pS23hu1ibiaySvSyxBa7fQz4mrUmlwboOJAR5ZMTjPWTTn6ZK0A/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="1080" data-width="100%" style="width: 500px;display: block;vertical-align: inherit;height: 239px;"/></section><section style="width: 100%;border-bottom: 1px dashed rgb(129, 209, 246);height: 6px;overflow: hidden;" data-width="100%"><br/></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section style="margin-top: 4px;margin-bottom: 4px;line-height: 1.75em;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);text-shadow: none;" data-autoskip="1"><section style="text-indent: 2.21428em;line-height: 1.6em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 1.6em;"></span><span style="line-height: 1.73em;font-family:宋体, SimSun;">当孩子告诉我们，自己在学校与他人产生矛盾时，我们首先要弄清楚孩子自己对问题的看法，针对孩子的感受作出相应的引导。我们可以按照下面的流程去引导孩子。</span></section><section style="text-indent: 2.21428em;line-height: 1.6em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 1.73em;font-family:宋体, SimSun;">（一）了解清楚事情的由来</span></section><section style="text-indent: 2.21428em;line-height: 1.6em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 1.73em;font-family:宋体, SimSun;">家长先让孩子讲述事情发生的经过，此时应注意倾听而不发表意见，孩子讲述不清楚时，家长可适当加以提示；然后，家长还可以再向老师或其他同学全面了解事情经过。</span></section><section style="text-indent: 2.21428em;line-height: 1.6em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 1.73em;font-family:宋体, SimSun;">（二）寻找解决问题的方案</span></section><section style="text-indent: 2.21428em;line-height: 1.6em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 1.67em;font-family:宋体, SimSun;">方案不是由家长提出，而是由孩子自己去想。当孩子提出一种方案后，家长可以进一步问：“还有其他的处理办法吗？”直到孩子想不出其他办法为止。</span></section><section style="text-indent: 2.21428em;line-height: 1.6em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 1.73em;font-family:宋体, SimSun;">（三）列出每个解决方案的好处和坏处</span></section><section style="text-indent: 2.21428em;line-height: 1.6em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 1.73em;font-family:宋体, SimSun;">家长与孩子一起，分析每一种解决方案可能带来的“好的结果”与“不好的结果”。孩子受思维和阅历所限，有时会想不到，此时家长要与孩子一起分析，家长的引导尤为重要。</span></section><section style="text-indent: 2.21428em;line-height: 1.6em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 1.73em;font-family:宋体, SimSun;">（四）选择最佳方案</span></section><section style="text-indent: 2.21428em;line-height: 1.6em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 1.73em;font-family:宋体, SimSun;">在分析的基础上，家长与孩子一起选择最佳的方案。方案的选择要有助于孩子形成正确的世界观、人生观与价值观。</span></section><p style="line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 0em;"><span style="line-height: 1.73em;font-family:宋体, SimSun;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-imgfileid="100191763" data-ratio="1.077319587628866" src="http://www.ytbbs.com/plugin.php?id=zxl_editor:wx_func&ac=wximg&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/dhhIQMInfy9UB45r0wKjgLLvDpG4JP8SUCEoCfTYtFbRX1bToLLYw9PfYibVXalibtl369BnicribHUQuiactkubayA/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="582" style="vertical-align:inherit;"/></span></p></section></section></section><section data-role="title" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="123217" style="font-size: 14px;"><section style="margin: 10px auto;display: flex;justify-content: center;"><section><section style="width: 40px;margin-bottom: -15px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-imgfileid="100191761" data-ratio="1" src="http://www.ytbbs.com/plugin.php?id=zxl_editor:wx_func&ac=wximg&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/O6kGTiaOgASibPBoNmCicRCJtUaA83ofyXsydfZFKenQeMAUj5hDD0vCoHbxp6l7sHCTeeZCJOIvSGXia396ckOPzg/640?wx_fmt=gif" data-w="120" data-width="100%" style="width: 100%;display: block;vertical-align: inherit;transform: rotate(25deg);"/></section><section style="background-color: rgb(129, 209, 246);border-radius: 25px;padding: 4px;margin-top: -25px;margin-left: 20px;"><section style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;padding: 3px 15px;border-width: 1px;border-style: dashed;border-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);border-radius: 25px;"><strong>03 引导孩子与同伴相处</strong></section></section></section></section></section><section style="font-size: 14px;"><section><section style="margin-top: 4px;margin-bottom: 4px;line-height: 1.75em;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);text-shadow: none;" data-autoskip="1"><p style="text-indent: 2.2em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;line-height: 1.67em;font-family:宋体, SimSun;">选择了方案并不意味着问题圆满解决了，家长还要引导孩子将选择的方案运用于处理人际关系的实践，让孩子在实践中学会如何与同伴相处。经过一段时间后，家长要与孩子交流方案实施的结果，并引导孩子反思事件处理的过程。</span></p><p style="text-indent: 0em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;line-height: 1.67em;font-family:宋体, SimSun;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-imgfileid="100191764" data-ratio="0.3435185185185185" src="http://www.ytbbs.com/plugin.php?id=zxl_editor:wx_func&ac=wximg&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_jpg/dhhIQMInfy9UB45r0wKjgLLvDpG4JP8SicqR7iaYPvIOVA7O9CaIb9qX4mep2MVia1DNtMJI867pkiclqc6hBOUwmw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="1080" style="vertical-align:inherit;"/></span></p><p style="text-indent: 2.2em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;line-height: 1.67em;font-family:宋体, SimSun;">孩子在不断体验情绪变化和反思事情结果的过程中，学会了不断解决矛盾的方法，培养了忍耐能力，找到了和同伴友好相处的技巧。作为家长，我们要把孩子之间发生矛盾作为教育孩子的契机，将坏事变为好事，引导孩子学会与同伴相处，构建良好的人际关系，让友谊的“小船”扬帆起航。</span></p><p style="text-indent: 2.2em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;line-height: 1.67em;font-family:宋体, SimSun;"><br/></span></p></section></section></section><section style="font-size: 14px;"><section data-role="title" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="123183"><section style="margin: 10px auto;"><section style="width: 35px;margin-right: auto;margin-left: auto;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-imgfileid="100191765" src="http://www.ytbbs.com/plugin.php?id=zxl_editor:wx_func&ac=wximg&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/13ZMVC6gQhjZCCzXB4O13fqd0yPcE4MWG477HzAwoTeP0VEAib8kpJxoZ3C9LdicOFNicxm0hcutNtOqetARt4yBw/640?wx_fmt=gif" data-width="100%" style="width: 100%;display: block;vertical-align: inherit;" data-ratio="1" data-w="80"/></section><p style="text-align:center;text-indent: 2.2em;margin: 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